Key concepts:
1) Don't seek just one mentor, seek many. Build a "developmental network".
2) "Relationally savvy" individuals are very good at building these networks - and we can learn from them.
"Savvys" are successful because they:
- Aren't shy about initiating and maintaining contact with people that can support their development.
- Are expert at recognizing when colleagues are interested in becoming mentors
- Put a lot of work in at the start of a relationship with a mentor to make sure it is successful
- Come prepared for meetings with their mentor, and follow up/keep them up-to-date
- Share information -- they are open, sharing, and trusting
- Make it mutual - good mentees find ways to add value to the relationship
- Are personable - they're simply easy to get along with
- Have a positive attitude - see relationships as an opportunity to "build bridges"
Anyway, take the time to read this one. There's great advice in there for mentees, mentors, and anyone that could be more thoughtful about the value that they give to and receive from others.
LINK: http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052970203937504574252141852898888.html